Haters are not on your level~
They are at a level below you, hence all the hate. They believe they are trapped there (and so they are). They’re not your enemies; enemies can bring you down.
Haters actually do the opposite of enemies. They validate you in front of everyone.
Subconsciously and secretly they deeply admire and respect you, so their attempts to bring you down will be riddled with self-sabotage and errors that actually end up being a boon to you. Typically they will behave in exactly a way that over time makes clear to everyone their motives, and that repressed admiration will mean they hand you success on a silver platter. They will accidentally screw up in just the ways that you need, because they literally can’t help themselves.
If you have no haters, you are not giving off vibes, or hopping.
I really didn’t want to believe this one for a long time — if I tried to visualize them away and was good to people I wouldn't have haters, I thought. But that’s not true. As soon as you go to stand for any kind of principle or way of being in the world or begin to succeed, those who envy you, will react extremely negatively.
Haters are likely your doing.
That's right, we all make mistakes. Some people are drawn to and become obsessed with our weakness.
Think of a 15 year old who hates their teacher because of some hypocrisy or weakness of character; the kid is likely right, and therefore a healthy challenge to the development of that teacher’s greater self. Open your heart to critique, once you’re safe from the haters. You will grow from it, but that’s not their goal. They unfortunately desire your demise.
You really can ignore them.
This one required people much wiser and more collected than me to remind me of, but it’s so true. Unless they choose to grow (which means acknowledging error and making restitution), they will remain stuck where they are indefinitely. Which also means, you really don’t need to worry about them. Tie your horse up, but don’t let it crush your ability to give away your trust and be vulnerable.
Haters are filled with pain.
Deep psychological and emotional torment, usually. Most of the time, those who are haters are nothing but a mess, both on the inside or out. If the doctors or nurses could show you scans of their well being, you could probably see all their scars and wounds.
Romance can lead to hate.
This is so common around the world, but even more so online. You start a relationship with someone, and for some reason or another things do not work out. That is fine, right? You both go your own way, but secretly one of you has angst towards the other for some reason or another. You move on, but the other person doesn't and when you start moving forward, these people morph into a diabolical type of hater. You’ve elevated yourself to someone worthy of their time, but you don’t want them anymore. Since they missed the opportunity to have you, they get sour grapes syndrome.
They try to invent reasons why you aren’t worthwhile. This makes them feel justified in hating on you. After all, there must be something wrong with you since you’re no longer interested.
You were supposed to sink or fail.
Your life is on a downward spiral and some people expect you to drown or fail. However, somehow you turn things around and become successful, or happy.
Some people will be angry that you didn’t drown. They’ll hate that you’ve managed to acquire a better life. You were supposed to be nothing. Instead, you became something.
These toxic personalities only feel satisfied when others suffer. If you come back to life after being left for dead, they need a narrative to explain why they abandoned you.
Rather than explain that you were a mess and in a bad situation, then wish you well, you have to remain the bad guy. It’s easy to hate the bad guy.
You stepped away from the nonsense, but the Haters didn’t.
You felt something was destined for failure and abandoned ship, because you didn't see any way thing could work out.
For the rest of your days, you’ll be the worst type of human being to the individual or group you eft behind or abandoned. Even though you acted in your best interest and worked to become a better person, all they can see is that you’re now a traitor.